tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4787381482400726509.post4949601670384299839..comments2023-12-28T19:56:26.527-08:00Comments on Let's Get Real-About Life: Can Men & Women Really Be Friends?Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4787381482400726509.post-42662518638786723322009-09-21T14:42:43.563-07:002009-09-21T14:42:43.563-07:00The problem of having a opposite sex as a closer f...The problem of having a opposite sex as a closer friend is that during our lives all of us have moments of sadness and a sensation that something is missing. In moments like that, a vulnerable person will fall in love to his/her best friend or will believe that the other person will fullfill the empty space...Levy de Almeida Juniorhttp://www.levyjunior.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4787381482400726509.post-16330262876881180352009-09-21T12:47:55.007-07:002009-09-21T12:47:55.007-07:00I re-read my comment this morning. Ooohwee was I t...I re-read my comment this morning. Ooohwee was I tired. I wrote it late at night and I had been up until 2am two nights before (my husband was gone for the weekend so I often stay up late when he is away.)<br />Anyway, maybe people have given up on the male/female friendships bc we think everyone is selfish and just think one will like the other so why bother? In the working world let me tell you it is almost unavoidable but we work w/ the opposite sex. If one likes me, well I really don't care because I am not going to like them. To continue to work together the other has just got to GROW UP for goodnes sakes. Let's have a mature frienship. We are married people, not middle schoolers. We have new responsibilites and we can learn and grow from each other. Maybe we have seen too many romance movies. This is real life and we can swallow or selfishness and learn how to be friends with others. Okay, I'll get off my soap box - but why don't others have an opinion on the subject?Sharon M. Smithhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08367612621429432666noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4787381482400726509.post-27337592421512344872009-09-20T23:23:51.952-07:002009-09-20T23:23:51.952-07:00Saying that there was only one comment to this pos...Saying that there was only one comment to this post is concernig and bewildering. Do people not have an opinion as to if men nd woman really can have a pure friendship leads me to beilve that people either absolutely agree with me and woman and men CAN be really just friends or they really believe that men * woman can't. Don't people have an opnion out there? HelllllloooooSharon M. Smithhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08367612621429432666noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4787381482400726509.post-13109099604644394522009-09-14T13:38:22.154-07:002009-09-14T13:38:22.154-07:00I don't think married men/women can have a CLO...I don't think married men/women can have a CLOSE friendship with the opposite sex. I guess I don't really think it's necessary if your husband is your bestfriend. <br /><br />Not saying it can't or shouldn't happen. <br /><br />I guess I have enough good males in my life. First being my husband who I tell everything, and then my Dad and Bro are right there next in line! <br /><br />Before I was married, I also RARELY saw a healthy balanced friendship between myself and guys. One person always tended to "like" the other person more and had hidden hopes it would become a love interest. Then that altered the "friendship" forever. <br /><br />But, that's just my experience! <br />I'm probably WAY conservative and "in-the-box" for this subject. :)<br />Interesting to think about though!NixonsMammahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11028885146560372839noreply@blogger.com